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I gotta ask what would you be interested in pal?
blacksmithing seems kinda cool
ive never had a job before but ive been looking at some lately for some time away from family, which has kind of caused me to feel very miserable as i feel as if i wouldnt enjoy any of them
And if the problem is that you feel unloved or not appreciated
You can always seek out gatherings of people with similar interests
It is the job or your family that makes you feel miserable
Sorry I am kinda slow of the mind
Well unless you are a 100% sure go for it don't let the scares win ya over matey finding out you didn't like a job is gonna be painful but watch is more painful is dying with the regret that you could have liked it if you just tried the first step
If you don't wanna talk about it
It is fine
But just know that you are not annoying me it is always interesting to ear others stories and life
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blacksmithing and making things seems cool but idk if its very profitable as a job still in the modern era
Better dying of poverty than dying in misery with a feeling of emptiness
And there is definitely a market for handmade things out there I am sure of it !
fair point, im not really sure where to start but ill try see what i can do
Most of the time it is nothing. But when you reach that ever-elusive state of happiness, it'll all be worth it.
What aspect of blacksmithing do you like? If you can find that part of it in another craft, one that is more profitable, try that.
Look sir if you chose to live in a state where you lie to yourself and take the easy but unsatisfying way to go it is your choice but don't go all around poisoning others with your flawed view point and making them quit before even trying
If you wanna flight high you better give up most of your fears and insecurities to finally see what's above the gray clouds
Only keep a few pathways with you incase you wanna change your route or if you fall
To not fly too high and keep yourself somewhat grounded
If you're truly interested it's possible to carve out a niche for yourself in that field
The pay won't be the best, but you shouldn't worry about that beyond keeping yourself afloat
To fix your life you first need a job. This will secure an income and a future for you. But also this will improve your mental health as you will no longer see yourself as completely useless. It will also expand your social sphere and make you feel as if you are actually contributing to and participating in society.
>as i feel as if i wouldnt enjoy any of them
Currently this doesn't matter at all. You just need to do SOMETHING. Doesn't really matter what it is. School has brainwashed us to think that you need to get the power to do the thing, but often you need to do the thing to get the power. Not everything has to be fulfilling or enjoyable. In fact about 80% of my waking life is not enjoyable, but I still do it anyways because I'm a duty driven man. That's how heroism is born.
In regards to mental health the other two essentials are social life and religion. You need to have a good relationship with your family and peers. So work on fixing that. Living just for living's sake eventually runs into problems as life often sucks. Therefore you need some other transcendent justification to keep fighting. If you do not find any of the claims of any religion to be convincing then you just need study philosophy in general. After that you should construct/find a worldview which justifies living and fighting in some way. For atheists the common justification is mankind's collective ascension through understanding and technological progress. Though religion is still superior to atheism in both utility and veracity.
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