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all the advises about finding a gf sound like a total bullshit to me cuz they are all contradictory
>uh you shouldn't care about what girls fins attractive, just stop TRYING, just be yourself and you will find one cuz girls are when you aren't being urself!
>in that case I am myself, as a man I enjoy feeling manly, so I go to gym to be muscular cuz I like being muscular, and I enioy manly hobby such as cars
>uh well actually men think girls find being masculine and doing masculine things attractive, but actually they do not. they actually like flamboyant guys who read books and like feminine stuff blah blah blah, maybe actually listen to women what they find attractive
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>man just stop trying to find a girl because that makes you look imposing yourself on her, just stop trying, be completely casual, you wilk just find one naturally, just focus on your life and your goals
>I stop trying to find a girl, I just focus on myself and my life, studying and going to gym and trying to make money. however, somehow, that doesn't magically bring me a gf
>uhhh but it's because you aren't even trying yknow you gotta put yourself out there and talk to her, show that ur interested, make a first move blah blah blah
vented on dutch anime site award
Uhhh idk man women are scary or something
Even ugly and retarded guys get laid, the problem is that op might be unfunny, has an unbearable personality or he emanates that trvecel aura that keeps everyone away
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I've been told a few times by the like 3 in the world I'd call colleagues cuz xhey are the only people I kinda stay in touch with (besides family) im pretty funny so I guess it's the 2 latter reasons, well it's obvious im an autistic retard but I just keep trynna analyse why exactly I can bench 100kg and pass all the exams on mechanical engineering while also being a friendless bitchless nigger it's not like I can't keep keep up a convo with another human being but for some reason I was able to make exactly 0 new relationships with anyone in a way that I would talk to xhem outside classes. I ain't like maya who escapes any interactions with anyone, I tried but it didn't work so my ultimate conclusion is im an unbearable retard with permanently unlikeable personality. Im sure the skills for finding a femoid are all the basic skills for making a friend + more, so if I can't even make any friends I'm just doomed to stay bitchless till the end of my days
Yes it is just luck and randomness, people don´t get it and trying to rationalize this creates the bullshit advice you se on /adv/ and repiller videos. I myself I'm a fakecel/volcel as I don´t ever care what I do with my life, if didn't got a serious relationship with a girl on school/work environments I may never get one in the future. I just don´t think about sex/having a girlfriend/gooning that much tbh.
So long as you lower yourself to any whores level you can get laid; but you must find a girl who is already on your level in order to find a real women. Older folks lived in a time when those women were in surplus- then feminism and the sexual revolution happened, so now decent women are few and far between. I'm not (and nor should you) be envious of people in relationships, trust me you aren't missing out on dating most moden women.
EXACTLY
BE an all-rounder. For me it's confidence, looks, charisma, rizz/game, stature, status, AND THE REST FOLLOWS
Damn I wish I had a mindset like that. I tried it already, trying to not care and focus on other aspects of life, but the frustration can't leave me and I still catch myself fantasizing about a happy relationship. And Im still lost whether should I learn to stop caring, or learn how to rizz. ig learning to stop caring is a more valuable, all-around skillset. that's what I'm gonna try to focus on.
You just don't goon often enough for your monkey part of the brain not to be stuck in "needs to find mate" mode all the time. Goon more, goon early, goon often.
You should be goonmaxxing right now instead of deliberately putting yourself into misery like a masochist. Shut that monkey brain down and focus on actually useful things.
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