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all the advises about finding a gf sound like a total bullshit to me cuz they are all contradictory 

>uh you shouldn't care about what girls fins attractive, just stop TRYING, just be yourself and you will find one cuz girls are when you aren't being urself!
>in that case I am myself, as a man I enjoy feeling manly, so I go to gym to be muscular cuz I like being muscular, and I enioy manly hobby such as cars
>uh well actually men think girls find being masculine and doing masculine things attractive, but actually they do not. they actually like flamboyant guys who read books and like feminine stuff blah blah blah, maybe actually listen to women what they find attractive 

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>man just stop trying to find a girl because that makes you look imposing yourself on her, just stop trying, be completely casual, you wilk just find one naturally, just focus on your life and your goals
>I stop trying to find a girl, I just focus on myself and my life, studying and going to gym and trying to make money. however, somehow, that doesn't magically bring me a gf
>uhhh but it's because you aren't even trying yknow you gotta put yourself out there and talk to her, show that ur interested, make a first move blah blah blah



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